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Rape and sexual assault

Information for men and women

Being raped or sexually assaulted is a very distressing experience and the effects can be long lasting.  Victims who have suffered sexual attacks describe feeling:

·   Angry

·   Guilty

·   Ashamed

·   Powerless

·   Depressed

Victims sometimes have difficulty sleeping or eating, and find it hard to concentrate.  Everybody reacts differently and it is not unusual for feelings to change from day-to-day.

It can be difficult to talk about the attack to friends or family, some people do not want to tell anyone about what has happened.  Support and understanding are important, and it helps to have someone to talk to, in confidence.

Facts about rape and sexual assault

There is a myth that sexual violence is only carried out by strangers.  In fact, many sexual assaults are committed by a man the woman knows, including partners and close friends.  Whether it’s by a stranger or a friend, it’s never the woman’s fault.

Male rape was made a criminal offence in 1994.  Since then, the Home Office statistics show a 400% rise in reported cases.

What we can do to help:

·         Offer information and emotional support

·         Put you in touch with local solicitors and community agencies

·         Offer you our Counselling Service

·         Assist with CICA applications*

·         Liaise with the Police and any other agencies

·         Offer information on medical health issues

·         Refer you to the Witness Service if appropriate**

·         Accompany you to the solicitors/Police station

·         Put you in contact with ‘The Haven’***

* A woman who is the victim of sexual violence may be eligible for criminal injuries compensation.  Normally, the crime must have been reported to the Police.  VSW can give you information about applying for this.

** If a trial is not going ahead, it is possible to take out a private prosecution for rape and sexual assault, or to go to the civil court to sue the alleged attacker for damages.  VSW advises you obtain legal advice before taking any action.

*** The Haven is based at King's College Hospital, Denmark Hill, London.  Visits are by appointment only unless its an emergency.  You can contact them direct on 020 7346 1599.  VSW volunteers have specialist training on Rape and Sexual Assault, and they can visit you in your own home or at our office.

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